Stop projecting your weaknesses onto others

If you want to find your issues really fast, make a list of all the characteristics you hate in other people. Then make a list of all the characteristics you admire in other people. Hold up the two lists in front of you; the ones you hate the most are most likely the ones you hate the most about yourself, and the ones you admire the most are ones you’re not giving yourself permission to develop. Work on replacing the characteristics you don’t like, and let yourself develop the ones that will take your life to the next level.